Invest in Your Prime Relationships – Part 1

What are your “Prime Relationships”? In this Relationship UPGRADE, Dawn Wilson encourages the kind of “investments” in these relationships that reap powerful results—so it’s important to know what they are.

[Note: For a more detailed version of this post with scriptures, see my other blog: Heart Choices Today.]

Investments are not only about money. Investments are akin to watering what you want to grow! We can invest in relationships!

When we invest in someone’s life, it likely to cost us something. But investing is wise!

• Someone invested invested in my life this year with her time, helping me with a project.
• Another someone invested in my life using her financial resources.
  
• And another invested encouragement, motivating me to see the big picture when I was so focused on one failing day.

I want to invest in others’ lives too, with time, talents, finances, prayers, words, truth … and so much more. I’m asking the Lord to help me see needs so I can “invest” wisely. How about you?

In this two-part post, I want to share some practical ways we can wisely and faithfully “invest.”

These are the first two “investents.”

          Investment #1. INVEST in YOUR LORD

Don’t forget: this is your prime relationship! 

Jesus said, “…what does it profit a man to gain the whole world, and forfeit his soul?” (Mark 8:36). 

We can store up treasures and yet not be “rich toward God” (Luke 12:21).

1. Know the Lord.

• Examine your heart. Do you really know Him, or just know about Him? 
• Seek Him. Pursue Him. Be intentional. 
• Grow in your intimacy with Him. 

2. Deposit Your Life with the Lord.

• Trust His character. 
• Appreciate His love. 
• Celebrate your security (in Christ). 

3. Seek to Please the Father.

• Yield Your body to Him. 
• Be obedient to Him.
• Follow Jesus’ example. 
• Discover how to be like Jesus! 
• Bear good fruit! 
• Love others well. 

4. Cherish His Word.

• Use your Bible. 
• Stand for truth. 

5. Rely on the Holy Spirit.

• Don’t Ignore God’s Gift. 

          Investment #2. INVEST in  YOURSELF.

Viewed correctly and biblically this isn’t selfishness.

If you don’t invest in your own health and well-being, how will you find the strength to invest in others?

Loving others as yourself assumes you’ve learned how to love yourself biblically (Mark 12:30-31). 

1. Take Care of Yourself!

• Nurture your body.
  
• Move your body.
  
• Relax.
  
• Get some sleep .
  

2. “Paint the Barn.”

• Maintain the Temple… reflect the beauty of the Lord who created you. 
• Style yourself for a simple, attractive appearance.

3. Expand Your Horizons.

• Discover your strengths and weaknesses … your spiritual gifts.
  
• Develop some new skills and explore creativity options. 
• Expand your knowledge.
  
• Further your education.
  

4. Plan for Strategic Dreaming!

• Plan to decompress.
• Plan in daily “breaks” to rest and recharge.
  
• Give yourself permission and time to dream. 
• Be a FINANCIAL investor.
  
• Set aside some “dream” money.
  

5. Practice Gratitude.

• Look for things to appreciate. 
• Train yourself to notice God’s goodness. 
  
• Be thankful for grace.
  
• Worship in thanksgiving.
  

We’ll continue with three more “investments” in the next post. [Note: for a longer version of this post with scriptures, see my other blog: Heart Choices Today.]

Meanwhile, do you need to invest more in your relationship with the Lord, in your own well-being, or in your husband? Which of these tips might help today?

Dawn Wilson,  founder and President of Heart Choices Today, is a speaker and author, and the creator of three blogs: Heart Choices Today, LOL with God (with Pam Farrel), and Upgrade with Dawn. She is contracted researcher for Revive Our Hearts. She and her husband Bob have two grown, married sons, three granddaughters and a rascally maltipoo, Roscoe.